How to Get Out of Oz

SERIES – How to Win When You Don’t Fit in

Ruth 1:1-18 NIV

1     In the days when the judges ruled, there was a famine in the land, and a man from Bethlehem in Judah, together with his wife and two sons, went to live for a while in the country of Moab.

2     The man’s name was Elimelech, his wife’s name Naomi, and the names of his two sons were Mahlon and Kilion. They were Ephrathites from Bethlehem, Judah. And they went to Moab and lived there.

3     Now Elimelech, Naomi’s husband, died, and she was left with her two sons.

4     They married Moabite women, one named Orpah and the other Ruth. After they had lived there about ten years,

5     both Mahlon and Kilion also died, and Naomi was left without her two sons and her husband.

6     When she heard in Moab that the Lord had come to the aid of his people by providing food for them, Naomi and her daughters-in-law prepared to return home from there.

7     With her two daughters-in-law she left the place where she had been living and set out on the road that would take them back to the land of Judah.

8     Then Naomi said to her two daughters-in-law, “Go back, each of you, to your mother’s home. May the Lord show kindness to you, as you have shown to your dead and to me.

9     May the Lord grant that each of you will find rest in the home of another husband.” Then she kissed them and they wept aloud

10   and said to her, “We will go back with you to your people.”

11   But Naomi said, “Return home, my daughters. Why would you come with me? Am I going to have any more sons, who could become your husbands?

12   Return home, my daughters; I am too old to have another husband. Even if I thought there was still hope for me–even if I had a husband tonight and then gave birth to sons–

13   would you wait until they grew up? Would you remain unmarried for them? No, my daughters. It is more bitter for me than for you, because the Lord’s hand has gone out against me!”

14   At this they wept again. Then Orpah kissed her mother-in-law good-by, but Ruth clung to her.

15   “Look,” said Naomi, “your sister-in-law is going back to her people and her gods. Go back with her.”

16   But Ruth replied, “Don’t urge me to leave you or to turn back from you. Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God.

17   Where you die I will die, and there I will be buried. May the Lord deal with me, be it ever so severely, if anything but death separates you and me.”

18   When Naomi realized that Ruth was determined to go with her, she stopped urging her.

  1. A Famine

(vs. 1-2)

Judges 21:25 NIV – In those days Israel had no king; everyone did as he saw fit.

Genesis 19:30-38 NIV30 Lot and his two daughters left Zoar and settled in the mountains, for he wa dees s afraid to stay in Zoar. He and his two daughters lived in a cave. 31 One day the older daughter said to the younger, “Our father is old, and there is no man around here to lie with us, as is the custom all over the earth. 32 Let’s get our father to drink wine and then lie with him and preserve our family line through our father.” 33 That night they got their father to drink wine, and the older daughter went in and lay with him. He was not aware of it when she lay down or when she got up. 34 The next day the older daughter said to the younger, “Last night I lay with my father. Let’s get him to drink wine again tonight, and you go in and lie with him so we can preserve our family line through our father.” 35 So they got their father to drink wine that night also, and the younger daughter went and lay with him. Again he was not aware of it when she lay down or when she got up. 36 So both of Lot’s daughters became pregnant by their father. 37 The older daughter had a son, and she named him Moab; he is the father of the Moabites of today. 38 The younger daughter also had a son, and she named him Ben-Ammi; he is the father of the Ammonites of today.

Deuteronomy 25 NIV1 When men have a dispute, they are to take it to court and the judges will decide the case, acquitting the innocent and condemning the guilty. 2 If the guilty man deserves to be beaten, the judge shall make him lie down and have him flogged in his presence with the number of lashes his crime deserves, 3 but he must not give him more than forty lashes. If he is flogged more than that, your brother will be degraded in your eyes. 4 Do not muzzle an ox while it is treading out the grain. 5 If brothers are living together and one of them dies without a son, his widow must not marry outside the family. Her husband’s brother shall take her and marry her and fulfill the duty of a brother-in-law to her. 6 The first son she bears shall carry on the name of the dead brother so that his name will not be blotted out from Israel. 7 However, if a man does not want to marry his brother’s wife, she shall go to the elders at the town gate and say, “My husband’s brother refuses to carry on his brother’s name in Israel. He will not fulfill the duty of a brother-in-law to me.” 8 Then the elders of his town shall summon him and talk to him. If he persists in saying, “I do not want to marry her,” 9 his brother’s widow shall go up to him in the presence of the elders, take off one of his sandals, spit in his face and say, “This is what is done to the man who will not build up his brother’s family line.” 10 That man’s line shall be known in Israel as The Family of the Unsandaled. 11 If two men are fighting and the wife of one of them comes to rescue her husband from his assailant, and she reaches out and seizes him by his private parts, 12 you shall cut off her hand. Show her no pity. 13 Do not have two differing weights in your bag–one heavy, one light. 14 Do not have two differing measures in your house–one large, one small. 15 You must have accurate and honest weights and measures, so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you. 16 For the Lord your God detests anyone who does these things, anyone who deals dishonestly. 17 Remember what the Amalekites did to you along the way when you came out of Egypt. 18 When you were weary and worn out, they met you on your journey and cut off all who were lagging behind; they had no fear of God. 19 When the Lord your God gives you rest from all the enemies around you in the land he is giving you to possess as an inheritance, you shall blot out the memory of Amalek from under heaven. Do not forget!

Sometimes it’s the choices we make, and sometime it’s the choices we have.

We are free to choose, but not free to choose the consequences.

Faith is believing God in spite of the appearance; obeying God in spite of the consequences.

  1. A Funeral

(vs. 3-5, 12, 6-18)

Ruth had a:

  1. Cursed life

Deuteronomy 23:3 NIV – No Ammonite or Moabite or any of his descendants may enter the assembly of the Lord, even down to the tenth generation.

  • Crushed life
  • Changed life

Types of Choices:

  1. Elimelech made a wrong decision
  2. Ruth made a wise decision

Ruth 2:5-9 NIV5 Boaz asked the foreman of his harvesters, “Whose young woman is that?” 6 The foreman replied, “She is the Moabitess who came back from Moab with Naomi. 7 She said, ‘Please let me glean and gather among the sheaves behind the harvesters.’ She went into the field and has worked steadily from morning till now, except for a short rest in the shelter.” 8 So Boaz said to Ruth, “My daughter, listen to me. Don’t go and glean in another field and don’t go away from here. Stay here with my servant girls. 9 Watch the field where the men are harvesting, and follow along after the girls. I have told the men not to touch you. And whenever you are thirsty, go and get a drink from the water jars the men have filled.”

  • Rejection
  • Rape
  • Robbery
  • Racism

How do you win when you don’t fit in?

  1. Determination (v. 16)
  2. Direction
  3. Dependence (v. 16)
  4. Desire (v. 15)
  5. Devotion (v. 14)
  6. Dedication (v. 17)
  7. Destiny

Ruth 4:21-22 NIV21 Salmon the father of Boaz, Boaz the father of Obed, 22 Obed the father of Jesse, and Jesse the father of David.

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