How to Keep His Pants Up Until He Gets Home SERIES – The Grand Story


Song of Solomon 3:6-11 KJV

  1. 6  Who is this that cometh out of the wilderness like pillars of smoke, perfumed with myrrh and frankincense, with all powders of the merchant?
  2. 7  Behold his bed, which is Solomon’s; threescore valiant men are about it, of the valiant of Israel.
  3. 8  They all hold swords, being expert in war: every man hath his sword upon his thigh because of fear in the night.
  4. 9  King Solomon made himself a chariot of the wood of Lebanon.
  5. 10  He made the pillars thereof of silver, the bottom thereof of gold, the covering of it of purple, the midst thereof being paved with love, for the daughters of Jerusalem.
  6. 11  Go forth, O ye daughters of Zion, and behold king Solomon with the crown wherewith
    his mother crowned him in the day of his espousals, and in the day of the gladness of his heart.

Hebrews 13:4 KJV – Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.

Genesis 2:24-25 KJV – 24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. 25 And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.

Genesis 3:6-7 KJV – 6 And when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree to be desired to make one wise, she took of the fruit thereof, and did eat, and gave also unto her husband with her; and he did eat. 7 And the eyes of them both were opened, and they knew that they were naked; and they sewed fig leaves together, and made themselves aprons.

Always give your husband a reason to _______________ coming home.

Genesis 1:27-28 KJV – 27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them. 28 And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth.

Genesis 2:24-25 KJV – 24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. 25 And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.

1 Peter 3:7 KJV – Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.

Women are more ___________ than ____________. Men are more ___________ than ___________.

Song of Solomon 4:1-7 MSG – 1 You’re so beautiful, my darling, so beautiful, and your dove eyes are veiled By your hair as it flows and shimmers, like a flock of goats in the distance streaming down a hillside in the sunshine. 2 Your smile is generous and full— expressive and strong and clean. 3 Your lips are jewel red, your mouth elegant and inviting, your veiled cheeks soft and radiant. 4 The smooth, lithe lines of your neck command notice—all heads turn in awe and admiration! 5 Your breasts are like fawns, twins of a gazelle, grazing among the first spring flowers. 6 The sweet, fragrant curves of your body, the soft, spiced contours of your flesh Invite me, and I come. I stay until dawn breathes its light and night slips away. 7 You’re beautiful from head to toe, my dear love, beautiful beyond compare, absolutely flawless.

Types of Love

  1. ___________ love – when we are ___________ the other person’s needs.
  2. ___________ love – when we are having our ___________ met.

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Top Needs of Women

1. A___________ 2. A___________ 3. A___________ 4. A___________

Tops Needs for Men

1. A___________ 2. A___________ 3. A___________ 4. A___________

D___________ to staying in shape I___________ to change
E___________ and exercise responsibly T___________ and accountability

Song of Solomon 7 ESV – 1 How beautiful are your feet in sandals, O noble daughter! Your rounded thighs are like jewels, the work of a master hand. 2 Your navel is a rounded bowl that never lacks mixed wine. Your belly is a
heap of wheat, encircled with lilies. 3 Your two breasts are like two fawns, twins of a gazelle. 4 Your neck is like an ivory tower. Your eyes are pools in Heshbon, by the gate of Bath-rabbim. Your nose is like a tower of Lebanon, which
looks toward Damascus. 5 Your head crowns
you like Carmel, and your flowing locks are like purple; a king is held captive in the tresses. 6 How beautiful and pleasant you are, O loved one, with all your delights! 7 Your stature is like a palm tree, and your breasts are like its clusters. 8 I say

I will climb the palm tree and lay hold of its fruit. Oh may your breasts be like clusters of the vine, and the scent of your breath like apples, 9 and your mouth like the best wine. She It goes down smoothly for my beloved, gliding over lips and teeth. 10 I am my beloved’s, and his desire is for me. 11 Come, my beloved, let us go out into the fields and lodge in the villages; 12 let us go out early to the vineyards and see whether the vines have budded, whether the grape blossoms have opened and the pomegranates are in bloom. There I will give you my love. 13 The mandrakes give forth fragrance, and beside our doors are all choice fruits, new as well as old, which I have laid up for you, O my beloved.

A. Learn how to _________________.
B. The ___________ is not the only ___________. C. Let your husband get ___________ without

being ___________.
D. Get the ___________.
E. Move outside of your ___________ and

___________ ___________ in your marriage.

Song of Solomon 4:12-5:1 ESV – 12 A garden locked is my sister, my bride, a spring locked, a fountain sealed. 13 Your shoots are an orchard of pomegranates with all choicest fruits, henna with nard, 14 nard and saffron, calamus and cinnamon, with all trees of frankincense, myrrh and aloes, with all choice spices— 15 a garden fountain, a well of living water, and flowing streams from Lebanon. 16 Awake, O north wind, and come, O south wind! Blow upon my garden, let its spices flow.

Let my beloved come to his garden, and eat its choicest fruits.


1 I came to my garden, my sister, my bride,
I gathered my myrrh with my spice, I ate my honeycomb with my honey, I drank my wine with my milk.

Eat, friends, drink, and be drunk with love!

Ecclesiastes 4:12 ESV – And though a man might prevail against one who is alone, two will withstand him—a threefold cord is not quickly broken.

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