Forget the National Guard – Send in the Moms!
SERIES: Family Matters – Strength for Family Stress
Proverbs 4:3 LBT
For I, too, was once a son, tenderly loved by my mother as an only child, and the companion of my father.
Mothers experience labor when they bring children INTO the world.
Mothers experience labor when they bring them UP IN the world.
Parents will always parent in SOMEWAY but not in the SAME WAY.
DEPENDENCY ages – infant to 10
INTERDEPENDENCE ages – 11-17
ASSISTANCE ages – 18-25
LET GO ages – 26….
- Accept your child’s UNIQUENESS.
Romans 15:7 NLT – Therefore, accept each other just as Christ has accepted you so that God will be given glory.
Proverbs 22:6 KJV – Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.
The job of a parent is not to MOLD their kids but UNFOLD their kids
- Structure your child’s LIFE.
Proverbs 29:18 KJV – Where there is no vision, the people perish: but he that keepeth the law, happy is he.
The Hebrew word for perish is Parah which means to RUN WILD.
Kinds of rap:
III. Trust your child with RESPONSIBILITY.
When you take responsibility FOR them, you take responsibility FROM them.
John 20:21 NLT – Again he said, “Peace be with you. As the Father has sent me, so I am sending you.”
I do it, they WATCH
I do it, they DO IT
I watch, they DO IT
They DO it
- Correct your child without CONDEMNING them.
How toddler’s think
- What I want, I deserve to have
- Because I deserve what I want, the ends justify the means
- No one has a right deny me or stand in my way
- The only valid rules are those I make
- The rules, even ones I make, do not apply to me
Ephesians 6:4 NIV – Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.
Hebrews 12:6 NIV – because the Lord disciplines those he loves, and he punishes everyone he accepts as a son.”
- EXPECT the best
- Have your child’s BACK
VII. Never GIVE UP on your child.
1 Corinthians 13:7 NLT – Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
Poem excerpt adapted from Nixon Waterman
I calculate I’ve been around as much as anybody.
Observing all the ways of folk.
And after pretty careful study, it’s my conclusion
That while men are secure about all the credit due them,
the women as a rule don’t always get the praise
That should be comin’ to them.
Just take the leaders one by one and
They will tell you in one way or other
The strength that helped them win their
Place was borrowed from their mother.
If the truth is ever known of
How they got so noted,
A lot of statutes would be rebuilt and petticoated.
I don’t maintain womenfolk are perfect and I never said it.
But I believe they are doing things for which some men are getting credit.
And when you see a monument
With some man figure above it.
You can rest assure that some
Mother is at the bottom of it.